Something’s not right
- Mark Discussion as New
- Mark Discussion as Read
- Float this Discussion for Current User
- Favourite
- Subscribe
- Printer Friendly Page
- Mark as New
- Favourite
- Subscribe
- Get link
- Flag for Moderator
08-04-2019 03:49 PM
08-04-2019 03:49 PM
Narcissitic Principal
I think the Principal- ( who I am now convinced in a narcissit) has contacted my Doctor behind my back & spoken about me.
-I handed in a Doctors letter of support to him Wednesday last week-
-Wednesday last week my doctor said I "could come in & see her anytime I needed for support " & she "would be my advocate-with school problems "-- because I couldn't get one until 3 months
-Friday was the meeting where I saw through his charm & he displayed Narcissitic Traits- including Lying to me, Gaslighting me, making everything I said out to be ridiculous, manipulation etc. etc.
-Today I had a doctors appointment because I was concerned I would not be able to take my child to her CAMHS apt. Tomorrow due to agoraphobia-
-She seemed PISSED OFF with me- like I was wasting her time. She said I can't keep coming in to see her like this- I only saw her last week-( when she told me I could come in to see her as often as I needed if I felt unable to cope)-
-She dismissed everything I had to say about the Principal & how he treated me- she was on the principals side- NOT my side
-She said I was catastrophising & used two other mental health words- (that I can't recall agm)-to DISMISS my GENUINE FEELINGS
- she had a complete 180% flip around -& was on the principal side sticking up for him & then when I told her she didn't understand where I was coming from & what I was saying- She GOT ANGRY WITH ME !
- I told her I didn't think I could take my daughter to CAMHS appt. tomorrow- she then THREATENED TO CALL CHILD PROTECTION SERVICES ON ME IF I DIDNT TAKE HER !!!????
- she spoke down to me - saying "Your the mother- you parent the child"-& a lot of other patronising things I can't recall cos I was upset.
- She would not listen to a WORD I had to say
-She then said things that I HAVE NOT TOLD HER - BUT THE PRINCIPAL HAS SAID TO ME!- such as ;: " do you think your daughter is making it up" & "You've been sending the Principal ALOT of LONG EMAILS, haven't you "- there is NO WAY she would know that because I DID NOT TELL HerTHAT!!
& SO WHAT if I sent him long emails- a lot needed to be said- which he kept ignoring- he did not ask me once not to stop emailing him- or point me in the direction of any one else I should email.
i am CONVINCED the principal has called her after receiving the letter of support with her info on it & they have spoken behind my back & he has completed turned her against me
- I feel so UNSAFE so SCARED & so like I don't have know who to trust!
-& the Doctor who wrote the letter saying she recommends Indi has three days off school until her CAHMS appointment- told me today- THAT I SHOULD HAVE SENT HER TO SCHOOL!!!- she WROTE THE LETTER SUGGESTING she STAY AT HOME!!!- suddenly she's done a complete 180% turn on HER OWN WRITTEN ADVICE TO ME- after the principal said he is disappointed I didn't send her to school!!
THIS IS WHAT NARCISSITS DO!!!!!
THEY TURN PEOPLE AGAINST YOU!
i am REALLY SCARED here😭😭😭
- Mark as New
- Favourite
- Subscribe
- Get link
- Flag for Moderator
08-04-2019 05:37 PM
08-04-2019 05:37 PM
Re: Narcissitic Principal
Is there anything you can do to help calm yourself in preparation for tomorrow?
Thinking of you ❤
- Mark as New
- Favourite
- Subscribe
- Get link
- Flag for Moderator
09-04-2019 08:59 AM
09-04-2019 08:59 AM
Re: Narcissitic Principal
- Mark as New
- Favourite
- Subscribe
- Get link
- Flag for Moderator
09-04-2019 07:13 PM
- Mark as New
- Favourite
- Subscribe
- Get link
- Flag for Moderator
09-04-2019 07:19 PM
09-04-2019 07:19 PM
Re: Narcissitic Principal
At least principal can't call DCP on me with this report because it says she is normal!
Just trying to decide wether I cut her off from her only other human connections in life- her friends to take her away from a toxic school environment- fun times- not an easy decision! 😭😭😭 @CheerBear thankyou so much for your support 😘💖🌺 I really appreciate it! Xxx
- Mark as New
- Favourite
- Subscribe
- Get link
- Flag for Moderator
09-04-2019 08:42 PM
09-04-2019 08:42 PM
Re: Narcissitic Principal
That's a big decision for you with the school. I totally get how torn you might feel given your concerns for your daughter and the loss of her friends but also the worry with the enivonment at the school. I find big decisions like that hard and they play on my mind a lot when I am faced with them. Hugs for that one - that's not fun at all.
I hope you have an easier night tonight with the stress of today's appointment over ❤