โ27-10-2017 02:52 PM
โ27-10-2017 02:52 PM
Thank you @Faith-and-Hope. My farm is calmer, just as chaotic but not as noisy. Today I tried ringing beyond blue which backfired and then googled 'how to stop dependent thinking', not a winning choice either as I just felt more shame and defective.
I feel very lost just now. Thank you for being here. I had no idea where to post.
โ27-10-2017 02:55 PM
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โ27-10-2017 02:59 PM - edited โ27-10-2017 03:00 PM
โ27-10-2017 02:59 PM - edited โ27-10-2017 03:00 PM
Yeah but this thread was never intended as a crisis thread @Faith-and-Hope although I guess in the end it was relevant to how I was feeling too which was a huge fear of my dependency. I am not in crisis but maybe this was a pre crisis intervention ๐ cos I was winding ๐ฌ.
Id love to know how you are going on an appropriate thread too. Like I've been looking for a few days now. ๐๐ค๐
โ27-10-2017 03:07 PM
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โ27-10-2017 03:14 PM
โ27-10-2017 03:14 PM
Thank you for sharing @Faith-and-Hope. I hope that post hasn't made you more vulnerable. It is a very difficult situation but seems like hopefully you are both in the arena too.......maybe not the same arena ๐. Only joking. While there is communication and exploration there is hope. I may or not be right in thinking that at this point the emotional currency is offered as an olive leave which is more on the positive side than not. Here with you, thinking of you........probably more than you know.
Sending love, hugs and flowers...... because they always make me smile ๐๐ค
โ27-10-2017 03:44 PM
โ27-10-2017 03:44 PM
Making me smile too @Teej ..... thank you โฅ๏ธ
โ27-10-2017 03:49 PM
โ27-10-2017 03:49 PM
Just realised does it make you less vulnerable if I don't tag?
โ27-10-2017 04:00 PM
โ27-10-2017 04:00 PM
Just ignore it @Teej ..... if thatโs okay. This is what the anonymity of the forums is for.
There have been other partners who have found their โsignificant othersโ on the forums before, and that has to be worked out by the parties involved .... and the relationship dynamics perculiar to them.
We are on the forums for a reason.
โฅ๏ธ
โ27-10-2017 04:03 PM
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โ27-10-2017 04:04 PM
โ27-10-2017 04:04 PM
Thank you @Teej ...... ๐๐ค๐๐
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