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[Leeanne1]

I'm stuck home,can't visit mum home is in lockdown and I'm thinking to much about things especially my children 😞😞

[Leeanne1]

I'm so sad😭😭😭😭😭

[tyme]

Awwww hugs @Leeanne1 , I hear your sadness.

Do you want a chat?

[Leeanne1]

@tyme 

Yes  I just want to talk to my son but other children won't give me his number 😭😭😭

[tyme]

Are you able to ask your children to then pass YOUR number to your son ? @Leeanne1 

[Leeanne1]

@tyme 

It won't matter what's the point of asking 😭😭😭

[tyme]

Because then you will know you have done your part @Leeanne1 - will asking do harm? I'm not sure of the situation.

[Leeanne1]

@tyme 

Ive tried not asking again cause I can't loose what I have left out of 8 only  four talk 

[Appleblossom]

Hello @Leeanne1 

You had a large family for our generation.  I bet it was a lot of work and your attention was stretched.

My family is fragmented too.  It seems more acceptable among younger people to cut family members off than it used to be.  I wish it was not like that and do not believe it is good generally. I understand why my girl has gone but it is heartbreaking and involved complex family dynamics.  I actually have photos in my room up on the wall.  Does it hurt me or heal me to see them? Mostly I just let it affirm my love. To deny the relationship would be worse for me.  I do not know what is best for you.

Take Care

Apple

[Leeanne1]

@Appleblossom 

I don't quite understand what you talking about because you have big words I can't read sorry